Sharon Davis marched determinedly into my office exclaiming, “Alright, Stephanie, what are we talking about today?” It’s a trait I admire about Sharon: straight-forward. She has a plan, she will achieve it, so there’s no room for small talk or maneuvering around uncomfortable conversation topics.
“According to my notes,” I matched her let’s-get-down-to-business attitude, “We need to finalize your resume, follow-up about the jobs you applied to recently, and discuss how we’re going to continue your job search.” But everything was done, done, done! Sharon’s can-do spirit not only marched herself into my office, but had carried her around town to different programs and job openings, so that everything on our agenda was completed before she had set foot through my door.
That left us with plenty of time to talk about her past and experience with Back on My Feet’s N Street Village Team. “My history,” she began, “I’m a substance abuse user and I used for many years, over 30 years.” Sharon was able to control her addiction for 5 years, but ultimately, the demands of work, school, and raising 6 kids on her own overwhelmed her and she returned to the habit.
But, she admitted matter-of-factly, “I eventually tired of myself.”
She used that to motivate her to find help. “I addressed my past and went to jail for a few months.” When she was released, she wanted to continue her recovery and developing her spirituality, since she was wary of the path where her addiction led. Eventually she connected with N Street Village: “Since being there, 4 months total, it hasn’t been bad. Doing meetings and groups has helped me sit still and take a look at myself.”
As soon as she became eligible to join the Back on My Feet running team, she signed up! “Back on My Feet has given me back my confidence and self-worth. Even in the shelter those things were lost and long forgotten. Had I not gone through recovery I probably wouldn’t have discovered those things.”
Sharon’s confidence is immediately evident when you meet her. She stands tall, meets your gaze, and engages in honest conversation without fear. The determination she has demonstrated to me in the time I’ve known her makes me convinced that she will meet her goals. After all, how many people can walk into a meeting with the agenda already completed and ready to tackle the next challenge? Sharon truly takes her life in her own hands and is working to achieve something greater for herself daily. “I have goals that I’m going to meet. I plan on going to school and becoming employable again.”
Before she leaves my office to attend the next meeting, apply for the next job, or seek out a new program, she says, “Thank you for pretty much getting me ‘back on my feet.’” Keep going, Sharon! We’re right behind you!